One Hand Clap
“There is only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that’s your own self.” – Aldous Huxley
Have you heard the sound of a one hand clap?
A litany of concerns often precedes the one hand clap. It sounds like complaints wrapped with emotions and presented as outrage. There is, frankly, only one advice: do not engage. Smile and nod your way out.
Coaching agile leaders is a fulfilling profession for me. But occasionally, the universe presents a unique challenge. Over time I have learned to smile my way out of the situation because some situations are not fit for coaching. You can tell that there is no desire to receive coaching when:
- Everything happens to them because of others’ mistakes
- Conversations with them are a series of deflections away from reflecting on their contribution to their challenging situation.
- They know everything, and the situation will improve only when everybody else does what they want.
I am inclined to try to help, and I know that venting can help people with letting go. I have benefited personally when friends, colleagues, and coaches allow me to express my frustrations.
And then I hear the yearning for the other hand. We all arrive at that place at our own pace.
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